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Who told y’all masculinity is toxic?!

Let’s debunk that narrative for the sake of our boys and men. Welcome to the Nontoxic Men project, where we celebrate good men and encourage both men and women to think deeply about what makes masculinity uniquely valuable.

The question everyone asks

WhY call it “Nontoxic” masculinity?

Director of the American Institute for Boys & Men Richard Reeves has real beef with the term “toxic masculinity” because the opposite has not been well-defined… until now.

The word “nontoxic” makes me think about crayons. When you see “nontoxic” on a box of crayons, what does that mean? It means they’re safe, that they won’t harm your children.

Toxic masculinity harms women, children, and other men.

Nontoxic masculinity protects them from harm.

Statistics from the CDC

RESULTS OF NEGLECTING MEN’S Health & Wellbeing

78%

of suicide deaths in the U.S. are men.

50%

increase in male drug overdose deaths between 2019-2023.

93%

of U.S. workplace fatalities are men.

Why you should read a book on masculinity written by a woman

First, let’s set the record straight:

Nontoxic Masculinity: A Celebration of Good Men is not an instruction manual. I’m not in the business of teaching people how to act. My specialties are pattern-recognition, psychology, and story-telling, not bossing men around.

Nontoxic Masculinity: A Celebration of Good Men is a collection of stories from history, pop culture, media, myth, and my personal life that illustrate a framework for understanding the 12 archetypes of masculinity and their shadows. It is grounded in the work of Carl Jung and Joseph Campbell and seeks to guide readers through an exploration of the enduring patterns of mankind that are embedded in our collective consciousness.

I wrote this book to make men feel more loved and less alone, to connect them with a divine brotherhood who share common struggles as well as uniquely valuable strengths. I sincerely hope it encourages your hearts.

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